And so begins part two of the dancing blog, in this part we'll assume that having followed some, if not all of the tips in part I you are now "dancing" with a girl! First of all don't take dance lessons and waste your money, and don't learn the moves to "We No Speak Americano" Inbetweener style...
The Approach - Don't sneak up, make sure she's aware of you being there and approach her not directly from the front but at an angle. The reason for this is that she won't feel threatened and you'll look that you're not TOO into her, but you are interested - the worst thing you can do in the whole of puling is to look desperate. Hopefully before even making your approach you've made eye contact, therefore you should be feeling confident that you'll be successful and this will come across!
The Alternative - This is mainly the waiting game as you either wait for her to approach you, or wait for her to call you over, this is often a better way if you have low confidence or are unsure if she's interested in you.
General Dancing- Always take the lead and get HER to dance with You, what I mean by this is that if you want to dance in a certain way then do so, this significantly improves your chances and makes you look calm and composed! Focus on her, don't look at other girls or your friends at this point otherwise se'll get bored and realise she might be wasting her time. Keep time, if you can dance even averagely then this isn't a problem, however if there's one secret of dancing it's to be in rhythm, it really isn't that hard and even practice a little bit!
Touching - It's usually best to let her make the first move, but use your dancing to get into positions that you can work from; for example get low and put your hands on her hips, if she doesn't want it to happen then she'll stop you. If she wants to heighten what's going on she will do so - and if that happens then you're in - Congratulations!
Grinding - This is the fail-safe of dancing with girls, simply get behind her and move a little bit, you only learn by doing so if you're terrible don't worry about it! Don't "hump" because it's the worst thing you can do, if she's happy with it then she's a complete slag however if she's not she won't be happy with it and will more than likely cut it off, and end the dancing altogether!
Slow Dancing - This is tricky in a club and the opportunity rarely arises, however you may well end up with a DJ who wants to make it happen! Move slowly and in time with her and she will reciprocate, by this point you should be pretty confident about going home with the girl!
"The NPS" - This is thoroughly untested by me, however having read about it I'm fairly impressed and think that perhaps it can work! I'll let you know what happens next time I go out! Get close to a girl and start dancing, then gradually move your hand close to hers and very slowly try and hold her hand! Half hold her hand and then give the signal that if she was to react it would take place! If she takes your hand then you're in, gradually spin her around and then you're done - congratulations!! (http://howtopullgirls.co.uk/content/how%202.htm)
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