Back to the game this morning - it's vitally important that you know yourself just as well as you know who you're trying to pull. We all have strengths in this area, and knowing these can help you tailor your methods to suit you.
Looks
If you're good looking then you obviously need to do less work, however it's how you use these looks. It's like women - if a 5 surrounds herself with 2's she looks like an 8, believe it or not try and do the same; if you're the best looking guy in a group then you have more chance! However, I've never been the looker and I do fine - being good looking can often back-fire, I have friends that know they look good and do terribly - girls can sense when people think they're brilliant and they are turned off. By being down to earth and confident coupled with good looks you'll have a much higher rate of success.
Charm and Conversation
Speaking to girls is the best way to pull. Fact. Once you start a conversation you're in with a shout, and to be honest the longer the conversation the better; it once took me half an hour talking to someone to get with them - but it paid off!! If you can talk to girls at ease, charm them and be interesting then they may well go for you! Paying compliments can be difficult, it can either make you look like a complete tool or seal the deal. The secret is to focus on something small and unique - a bracelet, their eyes or even their laugh; if you can say something they don't normally hear it helps you a great deal! But what if you can't talk to girls? Firstly sort yourself out, man-up and do it! If you still can't do it then often a good way is through eye sex, this topic will have it's own post so watch this space!!
Being Different
If you think you don't have this strength, then you've found your strength. You're so pessimistic and down to earth that you're different - hopefully this means that you can take the mick out of yourself. If you can be unique or do something that girls don't expect then you're on to a winner - even playing hard to get can work as girls expect you to them, don't.
Drinking
This is an impossible topic to write about. There's something that can be attractive about every type of drinker, be it the one who doesn't drink, the one who drinks to have a good time, the light-weight who's just a mess or the guy who can down pints like water. If you find out which one of these you are then it'll be an advantage. Not being able to drink heavily may seem like a weakness - try it both ways by being the drunkard and the sober one. The amount of times I've pulled because of my friends being horrifically drunk is countless - a simple apology goes a long way (and it's an excuse to buy them a drink...)
Dancing
I'm a terrible dancer - it's a massive weakness. However this weakness can be turned into a strength; by dancing like a dick you actually can look good, easy-going and up for a good time (not as sexual as it sounds I'm afraid...). I've spoken about mime before and I stand by that as a quality solution, although you get laughed at play the long-game and it works quite nicely! If you can dance well then you're sorted, the only dancing better than this is dancing that's different, if it's cool then girls will watch and talk to you!
The tip that comes out from this really is being unique, find your unique strength (or weakness for that matter) and you'll succeed.
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